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Apr 7, 2026
Apr 7, 2026
50 min
Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's š¤
This episode is honestly hilarious. Iām joined by my gay friend Massimo, who I met here in Miami, and we basically turn this conversation into a full Miami pre-game. Miami is a whole different world when it comes to dating, nightlife, and the people you meet here⦠so in this episode weāre spilling the tea. We talk about everything the reality of the Miami dating scene, sugar babies and sugar daddies, where people actually go out in the city, and the weird culture around money, status, and relationships here. We also get into the food scene in Miami, the difference between Miami and other cities, and why the lifestyle here can be so extreme.and his solution? Apparently I need to move to New York lol If youāve ever wondered what dating and nightlife in Miami are really like, this episode is basically the honest conversation people have JUST ON BLAST LOL.
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https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/
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Mar 30, 2026
Mar 30, 2026
55 min
Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's š¤
This episode is really special to me. A few weeks ago I met Kelly in Miami, and from the moment we connected we both felt like it wasnāt random. I had been praying for God to bring the right women into my life strong, godly friends and our friendship honestly feels like an answered prayer. Kellyās dad is a pastor, and in this conversation we talk about how faith shows up in the hardest seasons of life. We get into breakups, letting go of people you once loved, and how sometimes God removes someone from your life to make space for something better. We also talk about why praying for someone you used to love can actually bring peace, how breakups can push you closer to God, and how to trust His plan even when you donāt understand what heās doing. If youāre going through a hard season, feeling lost after a breakup, or just trying to grow closer to God, this conversation is for you. Sometimes the people God sends into your life come exactly when you need them most.

Mar 16, 2026
Mar 16, 2026
48 min
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In this episode weāre catching up on some real life updates. From deciding to stay in our Miami apartment for the next six months, to a conversation about whether guys and girls can actually be just friends. But the craziest part? I unexpectedly ran into my ex-boyfriend. What started as a chaotic moment turned into something I didnāt expect at all⦠clarity, closure, and a reminder that sometimes things really do happen for a reason. Miami stories, relationship talk, and a very real moment of growth.
Where to find me š¤ https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/
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Mar 9, 2026
Mar 9, 2026
58 min
Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's š In this episode, I sit down with Big Mo, a professional host who has announced some major events including the Jake Paul fight. Mo and I actually go way back to the XMMA days, when I was working as a ring girl and we first met backstage talking about our dreams and where we wanted life to take us.Five or six years later, seeing him on stage announcing for Jake Paul gave me chills because I remembered those conversations so clearly. He was doing exactly what he said he wanted to do.Now that weāre both living in Miami, we finally sit down to catch up and talk about the journey chasing dreams, moving cities, dating in Miami, and Moās advice for young men when it comes to approaching women. Itās a full circle moment and a conversation about believing in what you want and actually going after it.
Where to find me š¤
https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/
Where to find Big Mo
https://www.instagram.com/official.bigmoigsh=MXQ2dWszNWlsNXVzeQ%3D%3D
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Mar 2, 2026
Mar 2, 2026
1 hr 17 min
Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's
In this episode ft the The Journey Podcast, we flip the script and dive into dating from the male perspective .As a woman who usually interviews women, I wanted to sit down with men and ask the questions we donāt always hear answered honestly. We talk about: ⢠Dating from a manās point of view ⢠Who really has it harder in modern dating ā men or women ⢠Can men and women truly be just friends in a relationship? ⢠Why women act the way they do when dating ⢠Why men struggle to open up ⢠Girlfriends vs. guy friends boundaries ⢠The truth about asking for advice from the opposite sex This conversation is raw, honest, and unfiltered. If youāve ever wondered what men actually think about dating, relationships, commitment, and modern women this episode is for you.
Where to find me š¤
https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/
Where to Find The Journey Podcast š¤ https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC-IwcJPYNhUopC6M0VsURGw
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Feb 9, 2026
Feb 9, 2026
57 min
Hey Guys Welcome Back My X's .... Well you may really have an X after this week's episode. In todayās Valentineās Day special, we start by pulling back the curtain on last weekās Findom episode and go fully behind the scenes of what actually happened before the Zoom call from money expectations to boundaries, agreements, and what needed to be secured on both sides. Then we get into Valentineās Day itself: the one day a man truly has to show up. I call my girlfriends in relationships, my single friends, and the girls ātalking to someoneā to ask the real question whatās the standard and what should you actually expect? We also talk dating, boundaries, self-respect, and why two situations I tried this year didnāt make it past the talking stage. Because Valentineās Day doesnāt lie it shows you exactly where you stand. ⨠If he wanted to, he would. And this episode explains why.
Where to find me š¤ https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/

Feb 2, 2026
Feb 2, 2026
52 min
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In this episode, we dive into a real, honest conversation about financial domination (findom) and what it actually looks like beyond the stereotypes. My guest breaks down when he first realized he was a loser and, how it showed up in his life, and what initially sparked his interest. We talk about whether this desire connects to upbringing or psychology, his experience with therapy, and how this dynamic functions as a form of escape rather than control in his everyday life. We also explore the contrast between his public identity and private desires how he runs a successful business, makes high-stakes decisions all day, and why surrendering control is what brings him relief. We discuss dating, real-world relationships, spending habits, and how power dynamics play out both personally and professionally. This episode includes an open discussion and live example of findom dynamics, as well as a deeper look at how desire, control, and identity intersect in modern relationships. This conversation is educational, psychological, and unfiltered intended to inform, not glamorize along with a few treats for the goddess.
Where to find me š¤
https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/
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Jan 26, 2026
Jan 26, 2026
54 min
Hey guys, welcome back my X's š¤
This week's episode starts off heavy lol. I had a full- on mental Breakdown realizing I turned 30 lol.I start by sharing 30 things Iāve learned while turning 30, and then Tanya jumps in with her own thoughts. We reminisce about celebrating 10 birthdays together, what itās like sharing a birthday with your roommate (who also moved from Canada and started this journey with you), and our quirky two-year, two-day Aquarius connection. Of course, we blow out candles, sip champagne, gossip a little, and laugh about what it really means to hit the big 3-0. š„³
Where to find me š¤ https://www.instagram.com/aledeandra/ https://www.instagram.com/xthepodcast/
Where to find Tanya š¤ https://www.instagram.com/tarossii/?hl=en
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Jan 19, 2026
Jan 19, 2026
1 hr 4 sec
Hey guys, welcome back my X's š¤
In todayās episode, I sit down with a true Miami bikini queen AndreaG who started her swimwear brand 15 years ago and turned it into a global name with Kim Kardashian, Kylie Jenner, Britney Spears and major celebrities wearing her designs. We get into the real story behind building a bikini empire not just what worked, but what didnāt, the mistakes she made early on, and the lessons she learned growing a brand in one of the most competitive industries. After more than a decade in a highly competitive industry, sheās turned her experience into a book. The book breaks down 11 clear steps to growing a fashion brand, based on what actually worked for her. Itās a real, no-fluff guide she wishes she had when she first started. This episode is for anyone interested in fashion, entrepreneurship, branding, social media growth, or building a business as a woman ā especially if youāve ever thought about starting your own brand.
Where to find herš¤
https://www.instagram.com/missandreag?igsh=NWxudmVwdnc4cHN5
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Jan 12, 2026
Jan 12, 2026
51 min
Hey guys, welcome back my X's š¤
In this episode, we talk about what it really takes to leave Canada and move to the United States, including the different visa options available to Canadian citizens and the ones people ask me about most. We also dive into dating culture in Miami versus Canada why I never felt like I fit into dating in Canada, what feels different here, and what Iāve noticed from dating men in Miami. From there, we get into my one-date rule what gets someone cut immediately, the non negotiables, and why thereās often no second date. We wrap it up with funny, chaotic, and very real dating stories, both good and bad, that come with dating in the U.S. An honest conversation about dating, visas, culture, and reality.Ā
